School dances are common for high schools and even some middle schools. While the students are often responsible for deciding upon a theme and completely decorating the dance location, teachers and parents are often asked to chaperone. If you’ve never done so, here’s some tips on how to be a chaperone without keeping your child or teen from having fun.
You want to try to stay out of your child’s way and to keep a low profile. You’ll want to have your own way to and from the dance because your teen probably won’t want to be seen with you. You’ll also want to wear something fashionable but understated so you don’t compete with the students. Dads can wear a suit but don’t have to wear a tie.
Remember why you’re at the prom. You’re not there to spy on your teen or to keep them from having fun. Your priority is to ensure that all of the students at the dance are safe. Follow the instructions you were given about enforcing the school’s policies. Don’t accept or tolerate inappropriate behavior from anyone, including your own child.
You’re not there to dance, so do everything you can to keep from doing so, no matter how much the music makes you want to move. Resist the urge as if your life depends upon it; it just might if your teen catches you dancing and gets embarrassed in front of their friends.
Treat your teen like you wanted to be treated at their age. They’re not children any longer; they’re young adults and would like to be treated as such. This isn’t the time to take pictures either - take them before your child leaves the house instead.
Keep in mind that your teen may ignore you or avoid you while you’re there. That’s to be expected, really, since they’re trying to spread their wings and learn to be more independent. They need to be able to have fun without worrying about you checking up on them.
One place you may be asked to keep on eye on is the snack table. There may be punch or some other drinks available for participants. In the past, there was a possibility of someone spiking the punch. You can expect someone to try it today, too. Of course, with the school’s no alcohol policy, you may have to come down on the guilty party.
You may also be asked to check the restrooms, as well as verify that students remain in the room where the dance is being held. Be sure to follow the instructions you were given about where students are allowed and what to do if someone breaks the rules. It can be rewarding to volunteer as a chaperone for your child or teen’s school. Remember to keep your distance from your child so you won’t embarrass them. Do what you are asked to do, and you might actually enjoy yourself.
About this Post
Permalink | Trackback |
|
Print This Article |
Comments
Leave a Reply